The friend zone

Love - this four letter word is one of the most complex things you can find in this world. Love can be in different forms between different people, it can have various significances and diverse meaning in different contexts. But the kind of love most of the young guys in their early 20's are worried about is that which happens between a guy and a girl.

Love can happen almost anywhere anytime. It can happen with a glimpse or after years of hard work and understanding. But dont be fooled by simplicity of the previous line, love is a stubborn bit*h that is hard to be tamed. There are many risks involved in the game of love. One fatal mistake that most of the guys are doomed to commit is being dragged into the "friend zone". Yeah you heard it right the"friend zone."

So whats the" Friend Zone" ??
Its the most absurd state of mind that a beautiful girl puts an innocent guy by taking for granted his feelings for her and considering him just a "good friend". Most common misconception is that love happens after friendship. No it doesnt. It just increases the level of frustration in a guy and decreases his self esteem. The girls very often use this as a tool to keep a bunch of poor love hungry guys near them and to manipulate them by just leaving them with the thought that they are her close friends. So in the end its the dude who is pawned by the dudette.

So what should one do to not to get into the friend zone ?
So what one should do eh!!! if i would have known then i wouldnt have written this post. I am still searching for an answer to this question. You do all things that a normal girlfriend boyfriend do, you share each second of day , you dont hide even the most private thoughts in your mind from each other . Still not able to accept the relation .

I mean screw it !!!!!

So what ??

You made my life taste sweet,
Girl trust me i would never cheat,
Your smile marks the sunrise of my day,
The night occurs when with sweet dreams wishes you say,
I love you even more when you call me sweet dil,
Time freezes when i read the message heart beat still,
So what if i cant be more than a friend your man,
But you are the one and only one i adore my pretty woman,
That really wooed my dreams my day my night,
Oh my sweetie i wish forever you be my queen and i be your knight ..

Feelings before Leaving college :(

Breaking the shell and unfurling its wing
4 Years past we entered Engineering
Unknown faces were we unknown cultures
every other thing appeared to be preying vultures

time passed by and people became familiar
The bond of friendship grew stronger year by year
learnt a lot from the company of some of the best
Some inspired others setting examples out of the rest

The 4 hostels were like 4 shrines
each had a different flavour like different wines
The unique birthday bashes colourful tv room
Different colored threads were binded together by this handloom

Finally reaching on the brink when we look back
we are responsible for where we are no one to sack
Profound thoughts emerge into this unstable nostalgic mind
Thinking of all beautiful memories, thinking how to bind.

The four years gave glimpses of all the phases of life
Some got glimpses of love, luckier ones found their wife
But above all is the relation of friendship that nurtured
Amongst all the feelings that some time or other ruptured

At present it feels like a mission accomplished
A dream come true a dream i wished
But the sadness overshadows the happy sun
When you know the deadline has arrived and you need to make the run
You need to leave back and you know you have reached the ends
You realize its time to leave back your beloved friends
suddenly everything small and big flashes back
You are left with no choice but to leave with all those sweet memories in a sack

Thus ends the story of an Engineers dilemma
This is not the end but the starting of a new cinema
Ahead is a life full of tasks to be endeavoured
But never forget these 4 years happily together we forever savoured

Miss Sunshine

There is a sweet angel in my heart
Describing her, I dont know where to start

I miss her everytime this heart throbs,
With her smile, my heart , she robs.

She tells me you are a liar and a flirt,
Checking out girls dude you will be the first.

But i feel helpless in my defence
I have the answers but cant give them at any expense

I love to write about her every now and then
She is my inspiration dont know since when

She always enjoys pulling my leg
And i enjoy pretending helpless like an egg

I just wish to keep on writing till i die,
Pen down every moment of my life with you till the last sigh