Love - this four letter word is one of the most complex things you can find in this world. Love can be in different forms between different people, it can have various significances and diverse meaning in different contexts. But the kind of love most of the young guys in their early 20's are worried about is that which happens between a guy and a girl.
Love can happen almost anywhere anytime. It can happen with a glimpse or after years of hard work and understanding. But dont be fooled by simplicity of the previous line, love is a stubborn bit*h that is hard to be tamed. There are many risks involved in the game of love. One fatal mistake that most of the guys are doomed to commit is being dragged into the "friend zone". Yeah you heard it right the"friend zone."
So whats the" Friend Zone" ??
Its the most absurd state of mind that a beautiful girl puts an innocent guy by taking for granted his feelings for her and considering him just a "good friend". Most common misconception is that love happens after friendship. No it doesnt. It just increases the level of frustration in a guy and decreases his self esteem. The girls very often use this as a tool to keep a bunch of poor love hungry guys near them and to manipulate them by just leaving them with the thought that they are her close friends. So in the end its the dude who is pawned by the dudette.
So what should one do to not to get into the friend zone ?
So what one should do eh!!! if i would have known then i wouldnt have written this post. I am still searching for an answer to this question. You do all things that a normal girlfriend boyfriend do, you share each second of day , you dont hide even the most private thoughts in your mind from each other . Still not able to accept the relation .
I mean screw it !!!!!
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